“We must learn and then teach our children that niceness does not equal goodness. Niceness is a decision, a strategy of social interaction; it is not a character trait. People seeking to control others almost always present the image of a nice person in the beginning.”
WeskerRedfield0 on March 7th, 2018 at 16:54 UTC »
A very true statement.
Every “nice guy” I met is an ass hole. Only play nice to get something, but aren’t really nice at all.
hoofglormuss on March 7th, 2018 at 16:57 UTC »
Nice guys try to use kindness as a currency instead of a courtesy
Celtic_Queen on March 7th, 2018 at 18:31 UTC »
“We must learn and then teach our children that niceness does not equal goodness. Niceness is a decision, a strategy of social interaction; it is not a character trait. People seeking to control others almost always present the image of a nice person in the beginning.”
Gavin de Becker