My knee jerk reaction is “stop talking to her and don’t play those mind games”
But to be honest, it’s fucking stupid how many dudes don’t know how to take rejection and I feel like this is the result of encountering too many “Niceguys”
I don’t like shit tests, but I understand the idea and I think I could forgive it the first time. I do think there could be a better way to weed out the “niceguys”
Ladies, if you shit test guys like this, as a guy the only thing I would want is maybe a short apology explaining why you did it. Shit tests in established relationships is a big fuck no though.
Edit : Holy fuck people acting like I said to jump right into this girls pants are stupid. If this is too big of a red flag for you then unmatch! It’s that simple. I’m not even advocating that everyone accept this, I’m saying I understand it, and that I personally could maybe forgive it the first time, not that I like it and think this is a fantastic way to weed out assholes, cause it’s not.
Alternatively, call her out on this behavior. Which I think is the best option honestly.
Edit 2 : I’m turning notifs off so I can sleep. We get it, some of y’all would Nope right tf out of this and to that I say go right the fuck ahead. I’ve been saying this whole time to do whatever you prefer, some people handle things differently. Good night.
GameRage101 on February 13rd, 2021 at 09:21 UTC »
My knee jerk reaction is “stop talking to her and don’t play those mind games”
But to be honest, it’s fucking stupid how many dudes don’t know how to take rejection and I feel like this is the result of encountering too many “Niceguys”
I don’t like shit tests, but I understand the idea and I think I could forgive it the first time. I do think there could be a better way to weed out the “niceguys”
Ladies, if you shit test guys like this, as a guy the only thing I would want is maybe a short apology explaining why you did it. Shit tests in established relationships is a big fuck no though.
Edit : Holy fuck people acting like I said to jump right into this girls pants are stupid. If this is too big of a red flag for you then unmatch! It’s that simple. I’m not even advocating that everyone accept this, I’m saying I understand it, and that I personally could maybe forgive it the first time, not that I like it and think this is a fantastic way to weed out assholes, cause it’s not.
Alternatively, call her out on this behavior. Which I think is the best option honestly.
Edit 2 : I’m turning notifs off so I can sleep. We get it, some of y’all would Nope right tf out of this and to that I say go right the fuck ahead. I’ve been saying this whole time to do whatever you prefer, some people handle things differently. Good night.
abascaburger on February 13rd, 2021 at 10:46 UTC »
Try it with her see if she is as nice
TundrumMax on February 13rd, 2021 at 12:27 UTC »
I have never before seen a comment section so divisive, its amazing