The most effective thing an abuser does is convince you that they're not an abuser. This is abuse no person on Earth could reasonably handle this and stay sane. Even if they don't intend it to be this is abusive behavior and you need to look at it as that and not some kind of a weird quirk.
Brandon48236 on August 28th, 2019 at 18:09 UTC »
That's truly insane behavior, be sure to keep us updated on how this is going. Wait...
Insecurity-Guard on August 28th, 2019 at 18:48 UTC »
You should do some malicious compliance. Text them about every minute detail, no matter how insignificant.
trewbarton on August 28th, 2019 at 20:39 UTC »
The most effective thing an abuser does is convince you that they're not an abuser. This is abuse no person on Earth could reasonably handle this and stay sane. Even if they don't intend it to be this is abusive behavior and you need to look at it as that and not some kind of a weird quirk.