A 32-year-old woman in Birmingham, Alabama says the state's laws have forced her to face the man she says raped her again and again. With Alabama's recent abortion ban, Jessica's story has gotten national attention, showing how the state is failing rape survivors. Jessica asked to have her last name omitted from this story to protect her children.
A 32-year-old woman in Birmingham, Alabama says the state's laws have forced her to face the man she says raped her again and again. (Source: CNN)
Jessica says she was continually raped years ago by her uncle, her mother's half-brother. Despite the evidence, including a DNA test, he was never convicted.
"Well, it all started when I was 12 or 13 years old, and he started climbing in my bed at night," she said.
She was impregnated 4 times as a result. At 14, she miscarried. At 16, she had a baby boy. At 18, she had her third child. He later died due to a disease common in cases of incest. At 19, she had her youngest son.
"I literally just felt like I didn't have any options," she said. In another interview, Jessica told The Washington Post she was forced by her family to marry her rapist. That marriage was later deemed illegal by a court due to a "familial relationship."
Recently, her accused rapist has been taking her to court and winning for visitation of her sons. Jessica says she is sharing her story in hopes it brings change.
"You have to stand behind what's right, and you have to stand up for what you believe in. You know, it's been a very long, hard road for me. But it's going to be worth it. It may not benefit my case, but somebody in the future will benefit from this."
"We are one of two states in the Union that do not have a law that terminates the rights of a rapist," said Rep. Juandalynn Givan (D) Jefferson County.
Representative Givan says her fellow lawmakers are wasting time passing senseless bills.
"I think the legislature is failing the women of Alabama. The justice system can do no more than what we enact into law."
The man that raped Jessica still has visitation rights to her two children. The judge told Jessica she'd have to spend 48 hours in jail for each visit she denied her rapist.
Rep. Givan has already taken steps to pre-file legislation for the next session that would strip rapists of their parental rights. For resources for sexual assault survivors call 800-656-HOPE.
ShadowyKat on June 14th, 2019 at 07:43 UTC »
Recently, it feels like Alabama is going for the gold for "Worst State in the USA". I never understood why people want to give visitation rights to a RAPIST. It doesn't matter that he's the father. He is not father material because proved himself to be a danger by raping someone. This only serves to further traumatize the woman. If someone is a violent criminal- Why should they be allowed to even go near a child?! Why?
orenjixaa on June 14th, 2019 at 05:23 UTC »
Things to note that makes this more fucked up:
1) The girl was raped dozens of times, beginning when she was 12 or 13
2) She was pregnant multiple times from him before, starting at age 14
3) Her rapist is her mother's half-brother or her half-uncle
4) DNA evidence confirms the rapist is the father
5) Her family forced her to marry her rapist
6) Their marriage was only annulled because the court said it was incest
7) If the rape survivor denies her rapist access to see his children, then she will spend 2 days in jail per denial
8) Her children has spent at least a whole decade without seeing their father, and her youngest is 13 years old, meaning they do not need to be supported by him in the first place, i.e this isn't about the children
AshEliseB on June 14th, 2019 at 03:33 UTC »
This is so fucked up, I have no words.
As if that women hasn't suffered enough already.