Breakups are more hurtful for men than women, study says

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From experience and all that’s been seen and heard, guys do more of heartbreaking than women.

Thanks to such theories as ‘Yoruba demons’, and the more encompassing idea of ‘fuck boys’, one gets the picture that women get dumped a lot.

This is not to say women are not heartbreakers too. Of course they are.

As a matter of fact, this poll suggests that women do a lot of cheating than we might be ready to admit.

But who gets most affected by heartbreaks? Who suffers, and who does not?

Researchers from Binghamton University and University College London conducted a study that involved 5,705 participants from 96 countries to rate the emotional and physical pain of a breakup on a scale of one (none) to 10 (unbearable).

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The result of the poll shows that women often experience higher levels of both physical and emotional pain.

According to Craig Morris, research associate at Binghamton University and lead author on the study:

“Women averaged 6.84 in terms of emotional anguish versus 6.58 in men. In terms of physical pain, women averaged 4.21 versus men's 3.75.

“While breakups hit women the hardest emotionally and physically, women tend to recover more fully and come out emotionally stronger.

Men, on the other hand, never full recover - they simply move on.”

What do you think of this study? Please vote in the poll below.

-Skinwalker- on December 6th, 2018 at 03:59 UTC »

I got over her in 90 days and 600 nights

Amithrius on December 6th, 2018 at 03:26 UTC »

Eight months ago I got out of an intense ten year relationship. It fucked me up. And now I'm still fucked up and she's okay. Seeing someone else and wants to be friends. Just thinking about her hurts me to the core, much less talking to her. And I have to go on every day while keeping everything bottled up, because letting it out means breaking down. Meanwhile I go through the motions of life while wondering what the point of it all is.

Edit: Thank you for the outpouring of support you guys. I fucking cried like a kid just reading your comments. Just to clear one thing up. I haven't spoken to her since then, except to reply to an email she sent me. It was to tell her that I can't be friends with her. That it's just too painful and raw and knowing she's with someone else fucks me up too much. I've never really been a possessive or jealous person, so these emotions now are hitting me particularly hard.

AsianFromTheCaucasus on December 6th, 2018 at 02:18 UTC »

I'm a hybrid.

I feel intense pain, that lasts a long time.