Translation: If someone starts yelling at you for no reason and you can see it as their problem and not yours, then you will eventually not get triggered or take it personally whenever people start yelling at you.
As a private security professional, I can attest to this being useful while someone is yelling at me. If I don't take it personally, I don't get angry, and if I don't get angry, I can calmly de-escalate a situation accordingly. A related quote that is also a favorite of mine: "No one makes you mad, you make yourself mad."
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webguy1975 on October 13rd, 2017 at 16:05 UTC »
Translation: If someone starts yelling at you for no reason and you can see it as their problem and not yours, then you will eventually not get triggered or take it personally whenever people start yelling at you.
illbeinmyoffice on October 13rd, 2017 at 17:01 UTC »
but what if I'm the problem?
CompoundKhan on October 13rd, 2017 at 17:22 UTC »
As a private security professional, I can attest to this being useful while someone is yelling at me. If I don't take it personally, I don't get angry, and if I don't get angry, I can calmly de-escalate a situation accordingly. A related quote that is also a favorite of mine: "No one makes you mad, you make yourself mad."