One hot shower, one cold pie, one roof over his head

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One hot shower, one cold pie, one roof over his head

MAHVASH ALI / STUFF.CO.NZ Homeless man moves into a house after 33 years.

It was his first hot shower in more than a decade.

Rob Marriner said he stood underneath the water for one hour, until it ran cold. Then he went to sleep for nine hours - the longest he has been able to sleep in years.

Marriner had been homeless since 1984. For 33 years he roamed the streets of West Auckland.

MAHVASH ALI/FAIRFAX Rob Marriner this week moved into private rented accommodation.

"I still remember the day I moved out of my home. My father's abuse drove me out."

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But he moved into a two-bedroom one-bathroom house in Sunnyvale this week.

MAHVASH ALI/FAIRFAX "This is my house," says Rob Marriner, standing in the doorway of his home after 33 years on the streets.

His new home has furniture, courtesy of St John New Zealand, and he even has a flatmate.

But Marriner said living under a roof could be daunting.

MAHVASH ALI/FAIRFAX NZ Marriner says he is living "the life of luxury" now.

He said he felt like a baby having to adjust to a completely new way of life.

On his first night in the house he ended up having a cold pie for dinner because he did not know how to turn on the oven.

"We left our pies in the oven for two hours and still ended up having them cold. I did not know there was a switch."

MAHVASH ALI/FAIRFAX Marriner says he did not know the oven had to be switched on to work so he had a cold pie for dinner.

However, the next morning he said he had a "feast" for breakfast with his flatmate.

"We had 24 eggs with two loaves of bread. We figured out how to turn the thing on."

Marriner said living in a home was the "life of luxury".

MAHVASH ALI/FAIRFAX NZ "The streets have many secrets," says Rob Marriner.

"You can have coffee when you want and open the fridge when you like."

He said he could not sleep the first night in his new home.

"We moved the furniture about four times from room to room."

Marriner said it was nice to make a bed in the morning instead of wrapping up his bedding at the break of dawn like he had done for 33 years.

He was also getting used to washing his clothes.

The 54-year-old said he always dreamt of living in a home.

It was after two deaths in his family that he became more serious about achieving his dream.

Marriner's sister was murdered in 2014. The following year he said his mother died of a "broken heart".

"She couldn't deal with my sister's death."

He became involved with Taniwha Tales, an initiative of Te Whanau o Waipareira Trust launched in 2015, aimed at helping the homeless find a safe place in society.

Through them he found a new life and a new home, he said.

On the streets he would go to The Salvation Army and get whatever had been donated to charity, and Marriner said he found ways to get food, shelter and stay warm.

"The streets have many secrets," he said.

But there was one thing he did miss about being homeless.

"I had no bills when I was homeless."

animal531 on May 12nd, 2017 at 14:16 UTC »

Next trick to learn is that you now have to clean your house.

I'm still working on that one myself.

RWC88 on May 12nd, 2017 at 14:12 UTC »

I believe there is nothing better after a hard day of work to have a warm shower.........imagine after a hard 33 years.....christ on a bike

HammerAndFails on May 12nd, 2017 at 13:33 UTC »

So I worked for Habitat for Humanity for years as a project manager- out on site every day with volunteers and the homeowners. I'll never forget one fella who had lived in this old family home in a small town. He was in his 70s, and the whole house was heated by this 1920s wood fired stove, they didn't have enough money for lots of wood, so they would burn just a little at a time. This meant he had to wake up three or four times every night for 20 years to put more wood in the stove, it was an incredibly inefficient thing. The stove provided the only hot water in the house as well, if you put a kettle on top. No hot water heater.

We finished and had the dedication. After closing I went to visit them to check in- they'd lived there maybe two days. The older gentleman had taken three showers a day, because he'd never lived in a house with hot water before and he said it was the greatest thing he'd ever felt. He felt rich.

Damnit if I didn't cry my eyes out that day.

Its the little things we take for granted.