Overcoming Prejudice with Agape-Love

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Hubert Dreyfus has argued[1] that The Brothers Karamazov[2] sets up an “existentialized form of Christianity” in which the religious practices retain meaning without relying on traditional metaphysical beliefs. Existentialized Christianity is founded upon agape-love. When one has agape-love, she sees the potential for good in people and tries to actualize that potential. Dreyfus argues that agape-love is “world transforming” in that it makes new possibilities come to light. However, Dreyfus did not explain exactly how agape-love does this. I will argue that agape-love makes new things possible by dissolving what Dostoyevsky calls prejudice. Prejudice is a mechanism or habit that was arbitrarily set beforehand to dictate how decisions should be made, particularly decisions involving one’s interactions with other people. I will discuss three cases that elucidate the relationship between agape-love and prejudice. First, agape-love constitutes Dostoyevsky’s response to the Grand Inquisitor’s prejudice against humanity. Second, Grushenka is able to overcome self-prejudice with the aid of agape-love. And finally, the prosecutor and the jury mistakenly convict Dmitry of murdering his father because they are not able to overcome their prejudice toward him. Agape-love is the antidote to prejudice.

Prejudices make decisions easier. For this reason, we use prejudices every day. They are often called habits, heuristics, or rules of thumb. By making tough or routine decisions ahead of time we prevent ourselves from getting bogged down with all the details surrounding each decision we have to make. To live without ever relying on a prejudice would certainly require superhuman ability. Whenever we use prejudice, we run the risk of making mistakes, but the chances of error are usually pretty low. However, when we are over reliant on our prejudices or when we refuse to give them up in the face of relevant details, when we force ourselves to be certain when there is a possibility that we may be wrong, they hurt more than they help. Prejudice covers up possibilities. By judging an individual or situation beforehand, one runs the risk of overlooking some beneficial possibilities. For example, racism covers up the possibility of mutually beneficial interactions with members of another race. Agape-love, on the other hand, sees the potential for good in people. Agape-love dissolves prejudices and thereby allows us to see the possibilities that our prejudice had covered up. By refraining from pre-judging others, one is able to see the possibility of a productive interaction.

The most important example of agape-love overcoming prejudice is Dostoyevsky’s solution to the dilemma presented by the Grand Inquisitor. The Grand Inquisitor argues that Christianity expects too much of us. Christianity, according to the Grand Inquisitor, expects its followers to believe without miracles, and even without food. The Grand Inquisitor believes that if people are given the freedom to choose, they will inevitably fall short of Christianity’s expectations and probably even do evil most of the time. In short, the Grand Inquisitor has a prejudice against humanity in general. The Grand Inquisitor is too pessimistic about humanity’s capability to overcome evil tendencies and earthly desires. It is clear that the rest of the novel after the Grand Inquisitor chapter, including the cases I will now discuss, constitutes a response to his attack. The book is meant to show that the Grand Inquisitor—or anyone who adopts a similar view—refuses to see that people are capable of good, even if it is not the amount of good that Christianity expects of them.

Alyosha’s encounter with Greshenka is another example of agape-love overcoming a prejudice. Grushenka is distraught about returning to see her former lover after he had rejected her before. To her, it seems that the only available options were to either go back “like a beaten dog” or to “take a knife with [her]” (429). Neither option is attractive to Grushenka. Each option would speak poorly of her moral character and individual worth. But Alyosha does not judge Grushenka, saying that he thinks she is “a true sister, a treasure, a loving soul” (425). This helps Grushenka to see herself in that way. She releases herself from a purely negative self-image. She then is able to see that there might be a non-self-destructive possibility open to her. She decides that she can go back to her former lover without having decided to take him back beforehand. She can retain her dignity and not make a violent scene. By pre-judging herself to be essentially “wicked and horrible” (427), the only options that seemed available to her were wicked and horrible ones. Alyosha helped her to see her own potential for good, or at least that she was not merely doomed to always do wrong. A new possibility was open to Grushenka, which was covered up by her prejudice against herself.

Finally, the trial at the end of the novel shows a failed case in which the prosecutor and the members of the jury are not able to overcome their prejudice and, as a result, they convict an innocent man. The defender claims that the prosecutor “has developed a mistaken and prejudiced opinion of my poor client” (876). He argues that the prosecutor must be prejudiced against Dmitry because his arguments are supported only by psychological “fictions.” Psychological support must be arbitrary because it can be used to come up with an opposing explanation “that is no less convincing” (877). The prosecutor’s argument only sounds convincing because psychology can be used to “arrive at whatever conclusions suit you best” (878). He claims that the prosecutor “arbitrarily decided not to suspect Smerdyakov” (890) and likewise simply chose to disbelieve Alyosha’s corroborating testimony (885). Prejudices are often arbitrary decisions made before seeing evidence that then lead one to disregard or reinterpret contradictory evidence.

The jury was also prejudiced against Dmitri. The defender accepts that Dmitry “may perhaps have offended as many as a hundred people in our town, thus prejudicing them against him” (875). And since the members of the jury were residents of the town—although not very well known members—it is reasonable to assume that they at least knew someone who had been offended by Dmitry. At the very least, the jury certainly knew that Dmitry had a reputation as a troublemaker. Due to his reputation, most people thought Dmitry was clearly guilty and that “the whole trial had been staged merely for form’s sake” (797). The jury most likely decided to convict Dmitry before the trial had even started. Even if they hadn’t decided to convict him beforehand, they see that as the case goes on “the case for the prosecution seemed more and more clear cut” (807). The “lopsidedness of the case” (797) made it all too easy for the jury to “put dear Mitya-boy right out of the way” (910).

We the readers know that however lopsided the case, Dmitry is innocent. The defender casts plenty of doubt upon the prosecutor’s argument and then justly argues that “as long as there is a shadow of a possibility that things might have happened as I suggested, you may not declare my client guilty as charged” (894). They decide that Dmitry is not only guilty, but guilty on every account for which he was accused “always without extenuating circumstances, without recommendation for leniency. That the jury produces an extremely condemning verdict when much of the prosecutor’s case could be doubted shows that they forced themselves to be certain. This shows that their prejudice is hindering their judgment. The evidence is insufficient to support their desired conclusion, but they accept it anyway. The jury has made a huge mistake by convicting Dmitry.

In convicting Dmitry, the jury overlooked another possibility. For them, the only options were to allow Dmitry’s troublemaking to continue or to get rid of him for good. The defender saw another option. He pleaded with the jury for a punishment that would “save his soul and regenerate him.” He wanted a “just punishment, but also the rehabilitation of our lost fellow [man]” (902). The jury did not see the change toward good that Dmitry had already undergone. Dmitry promised to “become a better man than I was before” (906) should they acquit him. The jury did not think Dmitry would follow through with his promise. They believed that he was troublemaker and would always be one. In short, the jury did not have agape-love. If they did have agape-love, they would not have judged Dmitri so harshly. They would have allowed for his innocence or at least they would have allowed for the possibility that he could change for the better.

In each of the cases I have presented, the presence of agape-love allows people to see productive possibilities that are missed when it is absent. The Grand Inquisitor cannot accept that a community might remain faithful without coercion or bribery. Grushenka comes to recognize her own worth despite her history of wrongdoing. And the jury is merciless to Dmitry because they cannot accept that he might change. When one refuses or is unable to see a potential for good in people, these possibilities do not even appear. A prejudiced view of humanity or of individuals often leads to terrible mistakes.

[1] Lecture course give at UC Berkeley, Spring of 2012. http://itunes.apple.com/us/itunes-u/philosophy-7-001-spring-2012/id496140928 [2] Translated by Andrew MacAndrew. Bantam Classics, (1982).

piddlystains on April 30th, 2017 at 04:19 UTC »

Yo! Theology guy here! My thoughts on the article and some of the comments. As a disclaimer, in what is a minorly shameful admission for a theology student at my level, I have not read the novel in question (it comes up a lot in philosophy courses with a theological bent, but I read novels as escapism so I'm not inclined to jump into a book that is basically an informal theology/philosophy text). I will end it with a very real danger that I see with how we talk of agape.

First, though, a preamble. What is agape? Agape is the Koine Greek term for self-emptying love or sacrificial love. It is translated into Latin as caritas, which is the highest theological virtue for Aquinas. I mention this not because I'm an Thomistic expert (Lord knows I'm anything but), but because the Latin translation emphasizes a certain character to the word. The English for caritas is charity. Charity, in the Latin or agape-model, is not giving a homeless man change but it is a sort of love. In some respects I feel like charity sums up the word better. Both agape and caritas involve a giving up, but in English the self-emptying of agape tends to be a bit more abstract and theoretical; the charity understand of love emphasizes that the love we see in the New Testament is not abstract but very material -- it's evident in Christ taking up the cross and the early church sharing all goods in common. Agape is not just a posture, it is concrete.

An issue with the article is agape love is not founded on the potential for good. Agape love is prior to the potential to good in people. Agape love is often traced back to Jesus command to "love God with all your strength and to love your neighbour as yourself" (which is from Deuteronomy, IIRC). The way this is often talked about is the command to love our neighbours has nothing to do with our neighbours, it has everything to do with God.

/u/LLLLLink asks if this is a God-like trait and the answer from a theological perspective is yes and no. Yes in that, in the New Testament and in Jesus, this is a trait that is identified with the Triune God. No in that this trait is made available to us thanks to the Spirit. The Son embodies the love, the Spirit guides us to live it out. In traditional theological categories, we would turn to martyrs to talk about this. In accounts of the martyrs throughout history -- up to and including the present -- a recurring aspect is the forgiveness of persecutors during persecutions. In the ancient church, the explanation given for why more people seemed to convert during times of persecution was the character of the martyrs showed they had a better way of life -- praying, forgiving, and singing to their deaths -- which lead to the classic statement that the "martyrs are the seed of the church." The martyrs that forgive those about to kill them are seen as the very embodiment of agape love and used as examples to show that such love is possible. To follow this, I would suggest that modern unconditional love is based off understandings of agape that have been stripped of theological meaning. (Of course, it is a classic Christian conviction that even someone like Hitler must be loved and prayed for; keep in mind the church that affirmed this was under imperial rule and not-infrequent persecutions.)

/u/THEDEALYLAMA has an astute observation about the nature of prejudice. My objection to the article was the early disparagement of habit. Quite a few theologians, those that turn to virtue ethics most obviously, would argue that agape love is habit-formed and habit-forming. Agape love is attained when it is not a conscious decision, but when it a habit. An easy critique of agape love would be the mirror of the author's critique of prejudice; while prejudice is cynical, agape is naive. Is prudence (and thus some level of cynicism?) better than naivety? I'd answer no, but this short article side-steps important elements here, I think (which is fair, given its short length).

/u/skyfishgoo's point is very individualistic and it's actually disappointing that the article didn't touch upon something like this. Interpretations of agape have traditionally been very communal. This is something that's coming back again, because in modernity agape has often had an individualistic understanding. Agape love and accountability to your neighbour are often seen as related, though to what degree has been often an issue of debate. Someone like Aquinas very clearly has an emphasis on accountability to the Church, in his case the Roman Church (or at least in my limited readings of him that's the impression I've gotten). But habits like agape can only be formed in communities that seek to live out agape love. I'm a Mennonite and while we traditionally have not had very much theological justification for our traditional communal lifestyles (we're a group traditionally wary of theology and philosophy), a common conviction has been that you can only be a true Christian in community; thus you can only practice Christian love in community. Someone like Stanley Hauerwas suggests that you can only learn to be good by learning from masters around you; only someone that has the habit of agape can teach you how to be loving. He uses the metaphor of laying brick (being a bricklayer's son): you learn to lay brick by learning all the myriad of skills around the craft and by having a master of the craft teach you when you make mistakes. In such understandings, love can only be taught and formed in communities of people striving to be loving.

Now, an issue I have, and a wariness I tend to have of agape, is that it has often been used to justify victimization. As a Canadian, I have heard horrible stories of Native children in the Indian residential schools being abused and then going to classes to learn that God is love and how agape love is sacrificial. This has often enforced the idea that in the interest of being loving you need to bear such sin without complaint. Agape love as an answer to prejudice is toothless, I feel. Now you can say that Christ's death and the deaths of the martyrs also demonstrate that agape love has no answer to such injustices, but I think the idea of non-violent resistance is also important to agape. It's not summed up in the word, but as Jesus and the apostles demonstrate agape, I also believe that they demonstrate agape does not let injustice have the final word. On a utilitarian level, Paul tells the Roman church that blessing your enemies heaps hot coals upon their head (he attributes this saying to Jesus, making it an interesting Jesus quote because it does not appear in the Gospels!). Agape is not a grin-and-bear it approach to love, but it uses the love to also be a very sharp social critique -- and I will not pretend that the Church ever got this completely right (my Indian residential school example is always close to my heart on such matters as I know too many people that have directly or indirectly suffered through it).

The stories of the martyrs are great examples of how agape love has been used (intentionally or unintentionally) to convict persecutors (and as a Mennonite, I suggest reading the Martyr's Mirror account of Dirk Willems). Acting with love in situations where hate seems more logical to show just how devoid of love and justice the world truly is. What makes the death of someone who forgives their persecutor so powerful is it demonstrates just how much love the oppressing is missing out on but living the way they do. I can't pretend to offer ways in which to give agape love the tooth needed, but I think the New Testament shows that agape is also firey in all the right ways -- strong feelings rush when injustice is witnessed, it inspires powerful words and condemnations, while building up those disadvantaged. Which is another aspect of agape love -- it builds up even as it says "look, you have built your life on shakey foundations."

NotJustAMachine on April 29th, 2017 at 23:09 UTC »

Maybe a bit offtopic, but is Agape-Love fundamentally different from Loving Kindness practices in Buddhism or mindfulness?

THEDEALYLAMA on April 29th, 2017 at 19:44 UTC »

Falls apart in assuming prejudice is arbitrary, or if prejudice is arbitrary, that collective aversion applied to an individual is prejudice. A more accurate view would be that prejudice is high level decision making guided by pattern recognition in low level behavior/characteristics. My work as an analyst is litterally to make sure our prejudices accurately reflect and support our goals, rather than being guided by faulty intuition, internal politics and tribal knowledge.