Wishing you an absolutely boring and standards delivery.
Please do me a favour m, if you’re not already speaking with a counselor or therapist, please do so after you have baby. With every loss your chances of PPD or PPA increase. I had two losses, and while I don’t think I had either, I had some really complicated feeling navigating the first few weeks and months even of being a mom. You have this absolute joy of baby, the grief and trauma of your losses, your hormones, and the regular sleep deprivation and the huge adjustment to having a new born. I wish you luck, and please please remember to take care of yourself so you can show up in healthy ways for your family.
![image showing [OC] after 6 years and 8 losses I finally get to announce our rainbow baby is almost here 🌈](d3d70d52-287b-56c9-9e6f-2b6d3b3fae8d.jpg)
quasi-psuedo on October 17th, 2025 at 17:47 UTC »
What’s a rainbow baby? (Legit question I do not have kids so I’m ignorant here)
gingerflakes on October 17th, 2025 at 17:59 UTC »
Wishing you an absolutely boring and standards delivery.
Please do me a favour m, if you’re not already speaking with a counselor or therapist, please do so after you have baby. With every loss your chances of PPD or PPA increase. I had two losses, and while I don’t think I had either, I had some really complicated feeling navigating the first few weeks and months even of being a mom. You have this absolute joy of baby, the grief and trauma of your losses, your hormones, and the regular sleep deprivation and the huge adjustment to having a new born. I wish you luck, and please please remember to take care of yourself so you can show up in healthy ways for your family.
jessbird on October 17th, 2025 at 18:03 UTC »
that’s great but it looks like you’re escaping a forest fire