The Daily Populous Wednesday October 8th, 2025 evening edition
Authored by mainepublic.org and submitted by guanaco55

Standing in the kitchen of her South Portland home, eight-year old Piper Morse picks up a phone to call a friend.

"Hi Carly. Whatcha doin?" Piper asks.

The two have a lot to discuss: soccer game scores, an upcoming bake sale, and the latest on the social scene.

"I'll see you at the party," Piper says.

The conversation may be typical for a third grader, but the phone connection is not. Piper is cradling a white plastic handset to her ear. It's connected by a long spiral cord to a base with a push-button dial pad. It's just...a phone.

Courtesy of Caron Morse Piper Morse talks on the phone.

"I like it because you don't have to look on a screen and there's buttons," Piper says.

By the age of eight, nearly a quarter of U.S. children own a cell phone — and most are smartphones with apps and internet access. For many parents, giving a child their own smartphone is a fraught milestone. But some are finding ways to avoid its pitfalls and still keep their pre-teens connected to friends. They're getting landlines.

Piper's sister Molly, who's 10, says she also likes the landline. She's puzzled by the way that kids on the school bus pull out their smartphones and ignore each other.

"Because people are sitting next to them, who's their friends and stuff," Molly says. "And I'm like, put your phone down and just talk to people next to you."

Molly and Piper's mom, Caron Morse, says getting a landline "is probably the smartest parenting move I've made."

Morse says she was dreading the day when her daughters would own smartphones. As a social worker at an elementary school, Morse says she sees firsthand the way that smartphones can expose to inappropriate content, online bullying, and monopolize their attention.

Courtesy of Caron Morse Molly Morse talks on the phone to a friend.

"There definitely is a cell phone addiction in children right now," Morse says.

As Morse worried about what to do, she thought about the phone she used growing up and wondered if her kids would embrace a landline. But for them to go along with the idea, she thought she'd need other families to do the same and started nudging neighbors and friends.

"Get a landline with us," Morse says she would tell them. "Join us. It's not that complicated. It's not that expensive."

Now, a year later, Morse says about two-dozen families in her community have landlines — or internet phones that essentially function like a landline. And she's seen unexpected benefits. Morse says her daughters are better at conversations. They're not distracted like they were when they used her smartphone to call friends.

Courtesy of Caron Morse Molly Morse talking on her landline.

"They took my cell phone and they would disappear, and there would be filters, and their voice would turn into, you know, like a robot," Morse says. "I don't even think they were talking, you know? I don't think that they were actually learning how to communicate."

Morse says she and other parents were so happy with their landlines, they launched a Landline Kids website to encourage others to do the same.

"Hello?" Eleven-year-old Ashton Ladd of Scarborough says as he calls his friend Parker.

"I was wondering if you wanted to go fishing," Ashton asks. He's been using a landline since last spring.

"Once we get off the bus from school, we were kind of just isolated from all of our friends," he says. "But now that we have this, we're not really anymore."

His mom Jen Ladd says she and her husband wanted to stay in touch with Ashton and his 9-year old sister Claire as they got older and were home alone from time to time. She liked the landline option because its focus is outward for calling family and friends and making plans.

Patty Wight / Maine Public Ashton Ladd calls a friend to go fishing.

"As opposed to just sitting on their phone by themselves and doing who, you know, who knows what," says Ladd, "internet surfing or any number of other things that are just a little bit more secluded."

David Bickham, research director at the Digital Wellness Lab at Boston Children's Hospital, says smartphone are powerful devices "that can really can open the world to a huge amounts of information and content and people that are both positive and negative."

Smartphones can foster connection, he says. But they can also contribute to loneliness and mental health issues. The key, Bickham says is, to be thoughtful and intentional about their use.

"What's really challenging about it is, how do I set it up so that it's not controlling me? I'm in control of it," he says.

Bickham recommends parents to use settings that will encourage healthy use. Turn off notifications. Require permission to download an app. Explain why these controls are important.

There's no one ideal age to get a smartphone, he says, but "pushing it past that 9,10, age, which is really starting to be the most common age that young people get phones, to be pushing it beyond that as much as possible, I think it's probably fairly useful for kids," Bickham says.

In the meantime, he says, a landline is a viable option.

Jen Ladd says her kids have learned skills from the landline that she hadn't expected.

"It's fun," she says. "It's an independent thing for them to be able to do, to sort of like, reach out to someone and make a plan, or not. My daughter calls her friends and they tell jokes to each other."

Sitting in a living room chair, Claire Ladd dials her friend Ellie to share her latest joke.

"Why is the toilet paper afraid to cross the road?" says Claire.

"Because he was afraid he'd get stuck in the cracks," Claire answers, as they erupt into giggles.

What's an easy way to delay getting a smartphone? For these parents, the answer to that riddle is: get a landline.

Mister_Pibbs on October 8th, 2025 at 05:08 UTC »

I thought this was a good idea too. Bought a landline and the telemarketing calls were NON STOP. Like the phone would ring every thirty minutes. Eventually disconnected out of frustration. Even changed the number once

DasArchitect on October 8th, 2025 at 03:05 UTC »

I mean, great, but over the past decade and a half I grew to absolutely despise landlines. Telcos in my area have been "discouraging" landlines by accidentally losing service constantly and "upgrading" to mobile lines through a sim card adapter. That means they can get bad reception, bad call quality, call drops, glitched calls, and they no longer work during a power outage. Additionally, they seem to have become a huge magnet for robocalls. I've also been getting them on my mobile line, but it seems to be so much worse on landlines.

michaelyup on October 8th, 2025 at 02:45 UTC »

Cool. More kids should experience the feeling of slamming that receiver down on someone.