'Stealthing' is a disturbing new trend turning consensual sex into nonconsensual sex with one quick move that their partner may not notice.
'Stealthing' is a disturbing new trend turning consensual sex into nonconsensual sex with one quick move that their partner may not notice....
A Wellington man has been convicted of rape after he removed a condom part-way through intercourse without a woman’s consent.
Wellington District Crime Squad manager, detective senior sergeant Haley Ryan, told theNZ Herald this is the first known conviction for this type of offending in New Zealand.
Stealthing is the non-consensual removal of a condom during sex, when a partner has only consented to sex with protection.
The crime was brought to light in the BBC show I May Destroy You, where a character is the victim of stealthing.
Victoria University of Wellington’s Dr Samantha Keene said a conviction for the non-consensual removal of a condom during sex recognises that consent to sex with someone who is wearing a condom at the time it begins does not mean the consent remains when it is removed.
“Removing a condom during sex exposes the people involved in that activity to health risks, so sexually transmitted infections, HIV and in heterosexual encounters, unintentional pregnancies.”
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Dr Keene said survivors and offenders may not be aware that non-consensually removing a condom during sex could be considered a form of sexual violence.
“A conviction for stealthing recognises the seriousness of this conduct for survivors, so it may encourage others to come forward and report their experiences,” she said.
The man will appear in court later this month for sentencing.
Earlier this year theNZ Herald revealed the number of sexual assaults in Wellington had increased by nearly 50 per cent in the past five years.
Reports of sexual assaults and related offences have gone from 157 in 2015 to 230 in 2020, overall a 46 per cent increase inside the Wellington police boundary.
Although Ryan said it’s the first known conviction for this type of offending, because stealthing would be coded as “sexual violation” in the police system, a spokesperson told the NZ Herald they can’t easily isolate cases by the nature of the violation.
This article originally appeared on NZ Herald and was reproduced with permission
idreamofcake on April 13rd, 2021 at 19:44 UTC »
I was beside myself when a guy did this to me during our first and last encounter.
Condoms were my birth control at the time, and with PCOS my periods were never regular. There were so many pregnancy tests before my period finally came, and it was 6 months of STD testing before I could finally relax.
If I could have prosecuted him for rape, I would have.
timesuck897 on April 13rd, 2021 at 15:28 UTC »
If someone changed details of an agreed upon buisness contract, but didn’t tell me, that would be fraud. If I agree to have sex with someone, with a condom and no butt stuff, and they go against those conditions, there should be consequences.
deadmonkies on April 13rd, 2021 at 14:52 UTC »
Excellent. Don't want to use a condom when having sex? Find a partner that is willing to go without them and deal with whatever repercussions might happen together. Don't assault people.