I made a mental promise to myself that I'll never get kids unless I actually get a stable job and a nice home. No fucking way I'm making my child's life miserable just because people are pressuring me to have one early. Starting a family ain't a race, why do people gotta pretend it is? Don't be fuckin selfish. Think of your child's future
Dildo_Baggins__ on February 23rd, 2021 at 03:37 UTC »
I made a mental promise to myself that I'll never get kids unless I actually get a stable job and a nice home. No fucking way I'm making my child's life miserable just because people are pressuring me to have one early. Starting a family ain't a race, why do people gotta pretend it is? Don't be fuckin selfish. Think of your child's future
yblame on February 23rd, 2021 at 04:11 UTC »
Just because you CAN, doesn't mean you should.
Danbu42 on February 23rd, 2021 at 04:52 UTC »
I had a coworker(f) try to convince me that 16 was the optimal age to have kids b/c you "wouldn't be too tired to play with them."
Yeah, you would if you were working a job in addition to school and getting no sleep because CHILDREN ARE WORK.
I love kids, but I'll never have one until I can say for sure that I can devote the time and love they need to grow up healthy in body and mind.