Lol when I was dating before I met my wife, I remember hearing, “I don’t have any” or “I don’t have time for hobbies” in my mind, that immediately meant you were probably boring as fuck and/or obsessed with work.
If you're on a date and losing a woman by talking about your hobbies, one of two things is at play here:
1) you're talking too hard about them, dates are conversations not monologues, slow down and let her talk about her hobbies too.
Or
2) you're on a date with someone you shouldn't have a second date with. If someone finds gamers boring and uninteresting, but being a gamer is important to who you are then it's probably best to thank her for the evening and admit that you aren't sure you two were clicking. If she tries to correct you and pushes for a second date then have that conversation, but chances are good she'll agree.
the-real-donald-duck on August 5th, 2020 at 14:15 UTC »
If you’re losing all 13 of them there’s seriously something you’re doing wrong
It’s supposed to mean age, I know
fitemenerds on August 5th, 2020 at 14:28 UTC »
Lol when I was dating before I met my wife, I remember hearing, “I don’t have any” or “I don’t have time for hobbies” in my mind, that immediately meant you were probably boring as fuck and/or obsessed with work.
1CEninja on August 5th, 2020 at 16:49 UTC »
If you're on a date and losing a woman by talking about your hobbies, one of two things is at play here:
1) you're talking too hard about them, dates are conversations not monologues, slow down and let her talk about her hobbies too.
Or
2) you're on a date with someone you shouldn't have a second date with. If someone finds gamers boring and uninteresting, but being a gamer is important to who you are then it's probably best to thank her for the evening and admit that you aren't sure you two were clicking. If she tries to correct you and pushes for a second date then have that conversation, but chances are good she'll agree.