It sucks, but definitely better to find out now than in a couple months after you've told your families/made reservations for wedding stuff, or god-forbid after actually getting married and maybe having a child together. The heartbreak hurts now, I know, and it's shitty that she let it play out for 6 months, but you'll look back on this one day and be thankful she finally came clean before it got even more complicated.
alfiegb178 on May 17th, 2020 at 22:24 UTC »
Take care of yourself man
from_you_dante on May 17th, 2020 at 22:27 UTC »
It sucks, but definitely better to find out now than in a couple months after you've told your families/made reservations for wedding stuff, or god-forbid after actually getting married and maybe having a child together. The heartbreak hurts now, I know, and it's shitty that she let it play out for 6 months, but you'll look back on this one day and be thankful she finally came clean before it got even more complicated.
Diablo516- on May 17th, 2020 at 22:45 UTC »
Dodged a bullet. I’d say be together for at least 2 or three years before thinking about marriage