Hey OP my Wife passed away in the ICU as well at the end of October. I’ll try not to use any of the standard lines because you will quickly be sick of hearing them. The last few months have been hard with so many holidays so I have some idea what you might be going through. The only thing that makes any of this any easier is knowing that she is no longer in any pain and I am trying to focus on happier memories like the sound of her laugh.
Nothing I can say can bring our Wives back because that is sadly impossible. You are not alone in this experience and we will both find someway to traverse this path to some kind of healing.
OP, if you’ve never heard of it, there is a sub for this sort of thing. It’s called /r/lastimages and you might find some solace and solidarity with others who know exactly what you’re going through.
Thank you for sharing this most personal moment, and know that your wife will continue to live on through you and those that knew her.
If I may be so bold, I want to share with you a quote:
Of course I’ll hurt you. Of course you’ll hurt me. Of course we will hurt each other. But this is the very condition of existence. To become spring, means accepting the risk of winter. To become presence, means accepting the risk of absence.
Jeralt on January 15th, 2020 at 10:09 UTC »
I'm sorry
You both being there will no doubt mean everything to her in these moments.
gatewayy on January 15th, 2020 at 12:32 UTC »
Hey OP my Wife passed away in the ICU as well at the end of October. I’ll try not to use any of the standard lines because you will quickly be sick of hearing them. The last few months have been hard with so many holidays so I have some idea what you might be going through. The only thing that makes any of this any easier is knowing that she is no longer in any pain and I am trying to focus on happier memories like the sound of her laugh.
Nothing I can say can bring our Wives back because that is sadly impossible. You are not alone in this experience and we will both find someway to traverse this path to some kind of healing.
Hang in there OP!
dohpaz42 on January 15th, 2020 at 12:47 UTC »
OP, if you’ve never heard of it, there is a sub for this sort of thing. It’s called /r/lastimages and you might find some solace and solidarity with others who know exactly what you’re going through.
Thank you for sharing this most personal moment, and know that your wife will continue to live on through you and those that knew her.
If I may be so bold, I want to share with you a quote: