My father walked out when I was 3. Havent seen him since. I’m 30 now. Discovered recently on FB that he had a “new” family with 3 kids. Decided to reach out to the eldest son who was 22, my half brother. We exchanged messages, but after a while they stopped and I received this from his mom...

darkizzle on November 29th, 2019 at 01:41 UTC »

!explanation Received this yesterday, no response since from her or her son, so I guess they blocked me. r/wellthatsucks. All I wanted was some kind of connection, and some clue as to why my genetic donor did what he did. I’m pretty sure he’s the one behind this though and not the wife, as he’s made no effort to ever contact and seems to avoid it. Also I really wanted to know if my grandmother, his mom, was still alive, as I apparently never saw her again after he left and she cared for me when I was small. Oh well.

bluebug07 on November 29th, 2019 at 01:49 UTC »

She's kind of crazy. Seems like she's threatened by your existence. How horrible of a human being. If you want to contact your ADULT half sibling, then there is nothing wrong with that. Have her call the police and they'll tell her the same thing

BrinkleyBailey on November 29th, 2019 at 02:16 UTC »

If he’s never paid a dime, he technically owes your mom for every year until you turned 18. Even if you died today, he still owes your mom money