Are our mothers the same? Every time I bring up even just how she’s hurt me, “At least I didn’t make you go get a stick out the backyard and beat you with it like my parents did!” Like?? Yeah sure the screaming for hours while I sat there and sobbed is surely the “better” thing here?
HomeboyUgly on November 13rd, 2019 at 10:33 UTC »
She texts like a 14 y.o.
itllbeokay00 on November 13rd, 2019 at 11:07 UTC »
Are our mothers the same? Every time I bring up even just how she’s hurt me, “At least I didn’t make you go get a stick out the backyard and beat you with it like my parents did!” Like?? Yeah sure the screaming for hours while I sat there and sobbed is surely the “better” thing here?
Laena_V on November 13rd, 2019 at 11:19 UTC »
You just translated the very same conversation I had with my mother into English.
Her: How come you never visit or call?!
Me: You know, given my childhood I just don’t feel terribly close to you.
Her: Why do you always bring that up?! Besides, I had it way worse.
She then went on to play down what she did to me by straight up lying.
Haven’t talked to her since 🙆♀️