i thought I found an airtight escape from my abusive family in the form of a great job on the opposite coast. guess not. ploy #397866 to keep me from leaving: unannounced vacation that conveniently starts on the same day as my job!
I know everyone is telling you to contact your new job, but also make sure your housing knows to only let you make decisions. Make sure your bank account is secure and that she doesn't have access. Make sure you have all your personal documents (birth cert and ssn card etc.)
Good luck OP. Congrats on your job!
Edit : Just want to share some more sound advice from a couple replies to my comment.
A few commenters have mentioned freezing your credit so she cant pull out loans or credit cards in your name.
And lock any and all cloud storage you use, so personal photos can't be found if she has access, so she can't blackmail you. - u/DrunkEwok4
Verbal Passwords for everything are a good idea. -u/starlingsleep
Personally I would lock your credit too. Most mothers I know around here have their kids social memorized. - u/cavemans11
Psychowitz on October 9th, 2019 at 05:17 UTC »
Dude, I’m so mad for you. Like I actually hate your mom.
eboneau on October 9th, 2019 at 06:02 UTC »
I know everyone is telling you to contact your new job, but also make sure your housing knows to only let you make decisions. Make sure your bank account is secure and that she doesn't have access. Make sure you have all your personal documents (birth cert and ssn card etc.)
Good luck OP. Congrats on your job!
Edit : Just want to share some more sound advice from a couple replies to my comment.
A few commenters have mentioned freezing your credit so she cant pull out loans or credit cards in your name.
And lock any and all cloud storage you use, so personal photos can't be found if she has access, so she can't blackmail you. - u/DrunkEwok4
Verbal Passwords for everything are a good idea. -u/starlingsleep
Personally I would lock your credit too. Most mothers I know around here have their kids social memorized. - u/cavemans11
freakinuk on October 9th, 2019 at 06:12 UTC »
I bet you $1 OP that this ticket has not even been bought. Don't fall for it, https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn%3AANd9GcT-8dHC3CvcBUvi3ZlYwgVdMJIx9-Y8n25YjeJ6mxpr3wu1eiFP