Conservative groups storm Utah school board to protest students asking ‘spontaneous questions’ about sex

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Several conservative groups packed the Utah Board of Education meeting Thursday to protest a state law that says teachers can answer “spontaneous questions” from students about sex.

One woman called that allowance “inappropriate and potentially graphic.” Another said it opened the possibility for educators to get into “grossly irresponsible” material — and stray away from discussions on abstinence. Several speakers worried about what might be taught on abortion.

“If one child asks about oral sex or something explicit and the teacher answers it, it doesn’t mean the other 30 kids want to hear it,” said Robert Woods, who has four boys in public school. “Why can’t the teacher just say ‘That’s outside our curriculum. Please ask your parents if you really want to know’?”

The demonstration was organized by the Utah Eagle Forum and Pro-Life Utah. Members of the two groups signed up for nearly every slot during the public comment period, sent emails to those on the state school board and carried signs that said, “While you were reading this a baby was aborted.” One woman wore an American flag T-shirt. One man shouted “Amen.”

There were about 30 protesters filling the room with some standing along the walkways.

Gayle Ruzicka, president of the Utah Eagle Forum, said they decided to speak out after she discovered a teacher’s guide on the Utah Board of Education website that is meant to help educators navigate how to answer questions about sex.

State code says: “Utah educators may respond to spontaneous student questions for the purposes of providing accurate data or correcting inaccurate or misleading information or comments made by students in class regarding sex education.” Their answers, it notes, must still abide by state law, which permits an “abstinence-based” sex education program.

That means teachers must promote celibacy as the most effective way to prevent pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. They are prohibited from encouraging “premarital or extramarital sexual activity” and cannot talk about sexual techniques. And while there can be discussion of the use of contraceptive devices, there can be no advocacy for them.

The guide that Ruzicka found is dated October 2018 and falls under “teacher resources.” It provides commonly asked questions and recommends answers that educators can use to respond.

“Most of the questions I cannot read to you,” Ruzicka said. “It would be inappropriate and embarrassing for all of us.”

The list consists of 52 questions divided into categories of diseases, puberty, menstruation and sex. The examples include: “What is a wet dream?” “What is oral and anal sex?” “Can girls get pregnant if they have sex standing up?” “Will I be a better lover if I have more partners?” “What is masturbation?”

Many of the speakers were also upset by one question asking to define abortion, which answered: “It is the spontaneous or medically induced removal of the contents of the uterus during pregnancy.”

Deanna Holland, the vice president of Pro-Life Utah, an anti-abortion group, said that is “unacceptable and medically inaccurate” and it should instead be defined as “the intentional killing of an unborn child.”

She added: “Glossing over information on abortion is tantamount to approving of it.”

Holland, a mother of five, said one of her daughters is in a seventh grade health class and she doesn’t want her to hear these questions — which she believes could come up at any time and not just during the sex education unit which Utah parents are required to “opt in” their children for.

The protest came just a few months after the state school board gave final approval to a new set of guidelines for what Utah students should learn about sex. It was the first update in 20 years — but did not change the focus from abstinence.

It also follows a new report from the Salt Lake County Department of Health that found teenagers are contracting sexually transmitted diseases at high rates, leading the director to say that sex education isn’t working here.

“Teens need accurate, realistic and comprehensive STD education — whether that’s at home, at school, at church or in another venue appropriate for the discussion,” Gary Edwards said last week.

At the Utah Board of Education meeting Thursday, though, parents argued that they want their children to have less information — or at least be told to talk to their families when they have questions instead of being directed to ask their teachers.

(Francisco Kjolseth | The Salt Lake Tribune) Gayle Ruzicka, political activist and leader of the conservative Utah Eagle Forum is joined by supporters as they "storm" the state school board meeting on Thursday, Sept. 5, 2019, during the public comment period to talk about their concerns with sex ed.

“For all of these years, parents have been opting their kids into sex education classes and not being told the truth of what’s being discussed,” Ruzicka said. “Most parents don’t want their children to be taught about these alternative sex practices.”

She asked board members to distribute the commonly asked question list to all parents, so they’re aware of the discussions. She also requested that the board put an end to the practice of allowing spontaneous question, though that would require a legislative change.

The public comment period at school board meetings is typically limited to 10 minutes, but so many people signed up to speak Thursday that it was extended to 20 minutes. Additionally, so many signed up before the meeting that no more were allowed on the speaker list. A note outside the doors alerted that signups for public comment were closed.

“We only have so large of a spot. And it’s only fair,” said board Chairman Mark Huntsman, telling a woman she would not be able to talk to the board because she wasn’t on the list.

Board members don’t respond to public comment, so it’s unclear if they will take any action based on the feedback. Several of the speakers also sent emails to Gov. Gary Herbert and Utah Attorney General Sean Reyes.

A stock version of the letter circulated by the Utah Eagle Forum read: “The worst part is that by the time parents find out, if they ever do, the children will already be damaged.”

caanthedalek on September 6th, 2019 at 02:51 UTC »

“Most of the questions I cannot read to you,” Ruzicka said. “It would be inappropriate and embarrassing for all of us.”

The examples include: “What is a wet dream?” “What is oral and anal sex?” “Can girls get pregnant if they have sex standing up?” “Will I be a better lover if I have more partners?” “What is masturbation?”

Imagine being a grownass person in a room full of grownass people and thinking any of those things is embarrassing and inappropriate.

nWo1997 on September 6th, 2019 at 00:43 UTC »

Let's break this down. So

Gayle Ruzicka, president of the Utah Eagle Forum, said they decided to speak out after she discovered a teacher’s guide on the Utah Board of Education website that is meant to help educators navigate how to answer questions about sex.

This is one of the groups protesting. This is the offending guide in question. The guide notes

Teachers need to remember that if they are uncomfortable with a question, they are not required to respond. Teachers may respond to spontaneous student questions for the purposes of providing medically accurate data or correcting inaccurate or misleading information or comments made by students in class. Utah law prohibits teachers from answering questions concerning sexual techniques, including intricacies of sexual stimulation or erotic behavior

Among the sample of "spontaneous questions" provided by the guide, and their respective answers, are important questions concerning diseases, such as

From what body fluids can you get HIV? Answer: Blood, semen, vaginal fluids, anal fluids, and breast milk How do you know if you have an STD? Answer: STDs and STIs show different signs, but many do not display symptoms at all. People in doubt should be checked.

Also included are questions concerning bodily changes, such as

Why is there bleeding when a girl is on her period? Answer: Menstruation is the shedding of the uterus lining through the vaginal opening.

Is it normal for a boy to have swollen breasts, sometimes with discharge? Answer: This is a common happening during puberty, almost 50% of all boys will experience swollen breasts with or without a discharge fluid. It will go away over time and is not something unusual or to be worried about.

Also there are questions concerning pregnancy, such as

Can girls get pregnant if they have sex standing up? Answer: Girls can become pregnant regardless of the position or the location they are in when they have sexual intercourse.

Can a girl become pregnant if she only has anal intercourse? Answer: The only way a girl can become pregnant from anal intercourse is when any sperm comes in contact with the vagina. STD’s and STI’s can be spread through anal intercourse.

Can you get pregnant from having oral sex? Answer: No, but you can transmit or receive STDs or STIs.

If I use two condoms will I be better protected against HIV and other STDs or STIs? Answer: No, they produce friction which can cause them to break.

There are also questions concerning sexual morality, none of which are answered with "sex is bad or morally wrong."

Is masturbation dangerous or bad? Answer: There is no scientific evidence that masturbation is dangerous. In some communities, some families, or religions, masturbation is labeled as morally wrong or “bad”. What might be right or acceptable for one person is not necessarily right or acceptable for another. It is important to accept others personal values and boundaries.

Can you lose your virginity by using a tampon? Answer: People define virginity in different ways, but most define a virgin as one who has never had sexual intercourse. Using this definition, you cannot lose your virginity by using a tampon.

What is date rape? Date rape is when someone you know or have gone out with has sexual intercourse with you against your will.

The last topic I'll bring up are the pregnancy-prevention methods that these groups find most abhorrent: contraception and abortion.

What is “plan B one step” or the “morning after pill”, and how does it work? Answer: This medication is sometimes called emergency contraception. It is a medication to stop the release of an egg from the ovary. It may prevent sperm from fertilizing the egg. If fertilization does occur, this medication may prevent a fertilized egg from attaching to the uterus. The medication works best the sooner it is taken, it can be taken up to 5 days after unprotected or unwanted intercourse to prevent pregnancy. It offers no protection from STDs or STIs.

What is an abortion? Answer: It is the spontaneous or medically induced removal of the contents of the uterus during pregnancy.

Technique-based questions (how do you perform x act, how do homosexuals have sex, etc.) are prohibited from being answered.

In short, these groups are protesting that teachers have the option of providing, in a manner which is non-judgmental but still leans towards abstinence, answers to spontaneous sex-based questions concerning, among other things: pregnancy, bodily changes, morality, and abortion. They also seem to be protesting the non-existent option to give graphically detailed answers concerning sexual techniques.

EDIT: fixed hyperlink to guide

XMikeyDubsx on September 5th, 2019 at 22:51 UTC »

Isn’t Utah one of the largest consumers of online porn? Maybe if they stopped all of the sexual repression, they could slow down that porn addiction for future generations.