HSBC Taiwan boss walks gay employee down the aisle after her parents refuse to come to wedding

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When one lesbian woman’s homophobic parents refused to come to her wedding, the woman’s boss, John Li, CEO of HSBC Taiwan, stepped forward to be the one to walk her down the aisle.

“CEO John told us not to be nervous and to walk slowly,” HSBC employee Jennifer says in a video produced by the bank. “We cried because we never thought we would make it this far.”

Jennifer’s parents have always disapproved of her relationship with her longtime girlfriend. “Whenever my father sees Sam, he will push her out and tell her to get lost,” she confesses. For her father’s sake, Jennifer says she tried dating men, and even thought about having a fake marriage, but in the end she followed her heart.

At first, Jennifer was also worried that coming out would hurt her employer. “So I considered it very carefully, and realized that some clients were very supportive,” she says, adding that her boss and colleagues had all been very supportive about the wedding.

While the touching video was uploaded online by HSBC last month, it is only recently starting to gain attention. Grab some tissues and check it out below:

Though same sex marriage seemed to be on the cusp of legalization in Taiwan last year, that historic moment still has not yet come to fruition. Jennifer and Sam hope that by sharing their story, people will be encouraged to respect others’ differences.

As a company, HSBC has showed its support for gay rights before, unveiling a pair of rainbow-colored lion statues outside its office building in Hong Kong. Despite ferocious opposition from local anti-LGBT groups, the bank refused to take the statues down.

po8 on April 21st, 2019 at 20:03 UTC »

I was honored to walk the bride down the aisle at a Chinese wedding here in the US many years ago. I was her college professor and friend, and her father couldn't make it over from China. It was a really special moment for me.

HighlordDario on April 21st, 2019 at 19:11 UTC »

I wonder if it's more common for these kind of parents to eventually come around and accept their children, or take it to their graves. I can't imagine getting old, watching the world change to contradict my beliefs, and refusing to accept that I might be wrong.

OGIVE on April 21st, 2019 at 18:04 UTC »

At a lesbian wedding, are both women walked down the asile, or just one of them? If only one, how do they decide which one?