My mother is trying to get my downs brother to impregnate his downs girlfriend so she can take the baby : LegalAdviceUK

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My mother is trying to get my downs brother to impregnate his downs girlfriend so she can take the baby

My brother is 22 and has down syndrome with my mother being his sole carer (our father did a runner soon after he was born).

I'm 26, female and was told I would never have kids due to my tubes closing up which meant my mother would never have a grandchild from either of her own children.

Soon after I got my news my mother took an extreme interest in my brothers sex life. She signed him up to various dating agencies for people with downs even though all my brother wants to do is play Minecraft. He has no genuine interest in girls or sex.

Around 3 months ago I'd say a dating website specialising in relationships for people witb disabilities in Durham found my brother a match. A 19 year old also with a milder form of downs who is absolutely sex mad but like most young downs nowadays they share an interest in Minecraft but my brother still had no interest in sex.

As the weeks went by my mother began to encourage my brother to have sexual relations with the girl, asking him to kiss each other and lick eachothers tongue. This all came to a head when my mother bought testosterone gel online in hope it would make my brother more stimulated but after a month of that not working she decided to give him viagra during a play date, the dose was that strong he began crying because after 4 hours his erection wouldn't go away and she had to take him to hospital where she told the doctor he had found her boyfriends viagra pills in her bedroom. She doesn't even have a boyfriend.

When she fixed the dose of viagra she would tell my brother to go to bed with this girl where my mum would help them have sex. Again my brother had no interest in sex but was bribed with his favourite treat jammy dodgers (They were also the method my mum used to spike him by putting chopped up viagra pills in them).

By the way... throughout all this I'm telling my mother that YOU'RE F.CKING CRAZY! I've argued with her multiple times and I'm currently in the process of moving out because of this. Even though they're not using condoms my mother insists she's not trying to get this girl pregnant and says she's only helping because it was recommended by another mum with a son with downs. She says boys build up a lot of frustration if they don't have a sexual release and she's trying to look out for her son.

Anything my mother says doesn't add up, I've seen her history on her iPad. She searched for the best positions to conceive a child, how to make sperm stronger, ivf prices in India, sperm extraction techniques. It's so obvious she wants this girl to get pregnant.

My mother genuinely loves her son but I think this has just gone too far now. I don't know if what she's doing is criminal and I don't know if my brother will be taken away from her. I feel like if he was to get taken away she would lose him and me because I caused her and even though what she's doing is messed up she's still my mum and we are all she has.

So what I want to know, is there a way I can take full responsibility for my brother and move him out to live with me?

toomanyrougneds on September 23rd, 2018 at 16:06 UTC »

I wonder if she knows that the overwhelming vast majority of DS men are sterile. There are two reports in the world literature of DS men who have fathered children, and there’s no word in either case as to whether these men were mosaics or, less likely, chimeras.

She’s suborning rape - double rape, really - for her own demented sick reasons and she doesn’t even know how futile her attempt is bound to be.

scared_pony on September 23rd, 2018 at 16:06 UTC »

Jesus if she wants a baby that bad she really could just foster or adopt. Instead she decided to go to crazytown.

tashablue on September 23rd, 2018 at 14:58 UTC »

Jesus Christ my eyes. Please let that be a troll.