[Ont, Canada]My roommate refuses to close her door while she's having sex despite months of me requesting. Her door is at the end of the hall so any time I leave my room I have to walk towards hers. Is there any way to get a record of this happening without peeping tom charges?
Due to things like this, and other reasons, I am trying to get rid of my roommate. I want a record that she is exposing me to her sexual encounters without my consent, but I don't necessarily want to record them having sex since I'm pretty sure that's it's own issue. What should I do?
Edit: She has since punched me and given me a clear black eye. Police were involved. She is now out of the apartment!
Edit 2: So this blew up!
What was the result of the police?: Police were involved, and because my roommate and I had an "intimidate relationship" months ago, she was automatically charged - Domestic Violence/assault - I requested for no charges but due to the nature of the situation the cops did not have a choice.
Did I press charges?: The reason I called the police, but did not want to press charges is because I am 2X her size, and was worried that in a few days or weeks the situation may have been twisted in peoples heads. So I wanted to cover my own ass for legal reasons after having a physical altercation with a woman. I also wanted it on paper that she's been violent so that it would be that much easier to have her evicted in a reasonable amount of time.
Why not press charges?: My roommate and I have been living together for almost a year and have had virtually no issues until she's started seeing this guy. She's never done anything to indicate that she would have become violent in the past and has always been extremely respectful towards me, until recently of course.
Catalystic_mind on September 19th, 2018 at 21:22 UTC »
“Little late to the party but just play along with her game. Stand in her doorway and watch. Give some pointers and criticism. I am sure she would close the door next time... unless that's what she wants...”
Well this is fun advice.
LemonSkye on September 19th, 2018 at 21:16 UTC »
I had the opposite problem with a (now former, for many many reasons) friend that I stupidly decided to live with. No fewer than three separate times, he walked right into my room, without knocking, while I was having sex. Outside of this, he always made a big show of how he wasn't attracted to me and we'd make a terrible pairing, but now I wonder if it was a "lady doth protest too much" situation, or if he saw me as someone so devoid of sexuality that he couldn't fathom the idea that I might possibly be going to poundtown on a regular basis.
razobak09 on September 19th, 2018 at 20:37 UTC »