[SC] RA keeps interrupting sex because I'm gay (update) : legaladvice

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Hello again legal advice. This is a follow up to https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/9bfpx8/sc_ra_keeps_interrupting_sex_because_im_gay/

I've got good news: the RA has been removed! I went to the residence coordinator and he called someone above him in the housing department, who told us to write down every incident I remember for housing to review, then go to the title 9 coordinator. It took awhile to get through all the paperwork, but the process was a lot less intimidating than I thought it would be.

The RA was fired and given the option of either moving to an empty room in one of the old dorms or moving off campus within 30 days. He chose to move out and stay with his girlfriend after a week, which I didn't realize he had since I've seen other women come into his room but I don't feel like stirring that pot. After I made the report, he stopped banging on the door when my bf was over, but every time he saw me I could feel him staring daggers into me. He also started doing petty stuff like "accidentally" knocking my towel onto the floor of the shower room and leaving it there. He left me an apology letter at one point, but it was definitely not sincere. I could've moved to another dorm temporarily but decided it would be too much work because they gave him a 30 day deadline and he started packing the Tuesday after.

Yesterday the new RA finished moving in, and after talking to him about all that happened I think we're going to get along fine! :)

The residence coordinator said that housing had done all they could do, any further action would be done as a result of the title 9 complaint, which might take several months to complete. And for those wondering, yes it is a public college and there is no no-sex policy (I looked through the housing contract and couldn't find anything except rules against sexual assault and discrimination based on sexual orientation), I should've said that in the original post but it blew up and was locked by the time I saw those comments.

dvdvd77 on September 14th, 2018 at 22:52 UTC »

Please don't judge me but my first thought after reading was

"STIR THE POT. STIR THE POT. STIR THE POT"

I am incredibly petty and lord it would be great if LAOP divulged shit RA's infidelity as well.

october_comes on September 14th, 2018 at 20:46 UTC »

I gotta a feeling the old RA's housing situation isn't going to last long.

DPMx9 on September 14th, 2018 at 20:04 UTC »

Look, a story with a happy ending.

I am glad that the LAOP was able to get the offending RA out of the way.

I mean, seriously, it's 2018 - pretending that gay sex is somehow evil while straight sex is totally cool is so 1960's.