TIL If you die in Amsterdam with no next of kin and nobody to attend your funeral, a poet will write a poem for you and recite it at your funeral.

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Every year up to 20 people die completely alone in Amsterdam. There are no friends or family to prepare their funeral or mourn over the body. Sometimes these people are illegal migrants, drug mules, or simply people who for one reason or another, cut off all social contacts.

A civil servant and a poet come together in their shared determination that those who die alone have a respectful and personal funeral.

For 20 years Ger Frits has chosen music to play at what have become known as "lonely funerals". He puts flowers on the coffin and accompanies each person to their final resting place.

A few years ago, Amsterdam poet Frank Starik decided that these people also deserved to be eulogized, and after some reluctance Frits agreed.

City workers visit the houses of the deceased to sort out their bills and administration. They also see the loneliness. The visits have a practical purpose, but they also provide inspiration for the poems read out at the service. "The funeral is a moment of reckoning and someone needs to put in a good word for you. One of our essential qualities is a need for a story.... what the lonely funeral does is return stories to people who somehow have lost theirs along the way," says Starik.

The Lonely Funeral is the fourth in this year's Global Perspective documentary series. It was made in partnership with Radio Netherlands Worldwide radio.

click Find out more about the Global Perspective documentary series.

First broadcast on BBC World Service 14 May 2010.

duradura50 on July 11st, 2018 at 06:58 UTC »

The website is:

http://www.eenzameuitvaart.nl/

And only in Dutch.

It gives a little background to the person, the circumstances of their passing away and then a poem is written.

More and more people are dying alone in our cities, and at least there are some people who care.

MTGPeter on July 11st, 2018 at 06:23 UTC »

Amsterdammer here...

There will also be two people from the municipality to attend the funeral. They bring music as well.

Last year 15 'lonely' funerals were held.

The funerals will also be held if the deceased person in question has no money or insurance and expenses are paid by local government.

Edit: another 336 funerals were held for people that had no money for a funeral or next of kin that can or want to pay the expenses. The City pays the bill, making sure attendees see/feel no difference from a 'regular' funeral.

-SaC on July 11st, 2018 at 04:18 UTC »

“Here’s a bloke

His name was Jeff

Friendless in life

Lonely in death”