Domestic violence shelter being custom-built to include pets

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A pet Chihuahua plays outside in a dog run at the first pet-friendly domestic violence shelter in New York. Now, the group that runs that facility, the Urban Resource Institute, and Purina say they're planning a first-ever domestic violence shelter custom-designed to accommodate people and their pets. It will also be in New York City. Renderings for the first domestic violence shelter custom-built to accommodate pets, which advocates say is a factor in some victims' decisions to leave their abusers. Organizers say this one is the first specifically designed for every apartment to house people with pets. (Kerstin Vom Hagen/Urban Resource Institute via AP) Renderings for the first domestic violence shelter custom-built to accommodate pets, which advocates say is a factor in some victims' decisions to leave their abusers. (Kerstin Vom Hagen/Urban Resource Institute via AP) Renderings for the first domestic violence shelter custom-built to accommodate pets, which advocates say is a factor in some victims' decisions to leave their abusers. (Kerstin Vom Hagen/Urban Resource Institute via AP) Renderings for the first domestic violence shelter custom-built to accommodate pets, which advocates say is a factor in some victims' decisions to leave their abusers. Organizers say this one is the first specifically designed for every apartment to house people with pets. (Kerstin Vom Hagen/Urban Resource Institute via AP)

Expected to open in October and house up to 100 people, it builds on a growing roster of shelters that accommodate animals so their owners won't hesitate to leave abusive homes. Organizers say it's the first of its size specifically designed for every apartment to house people with pets.

"By doing so from the ground up, with not only humans in mind but pets in mind, it's going to allow for a fuller recovery for pets and the entire family," says Dr. Kurt Venator, chief veterinary officer of Nestle Purina PetCare Co., which is contributing supplies and expertise to the $20 million project.

The Urban Resource Institute, a shelter operator, is running the facility, financed through private donations and some government support. Studies have documented links between domestic violence and animal cruelty and have noted some victims' reluctance to leave without their pets. Some fear their abusers will retaliate by harming the animals.

The number of pet-friendly domestic violence shelters nationwide has grown from four in 2008 to dozens in recent years. But about 97 percent of shelters still don't accept pets, according to Urban Resource Institute CEO Nathaniel Fields. (Some of them do help arrange foster care.)

URI has opened 52 pet-friendly apartments around New York City in the last four years but still got about 350 more requests than it could fulfill. Advocates for pet-friendly shelters have faced questions about whether accommodating animals siphons focus and resources from abused people, or how people who fear for their lives can think about their pets.

But for many victims, Fields says, "it's not an either-or." Hope Dawson adopted her dog, Coco, to cheer up her two children after they awoke to sounds of thrown objects crashing and then saw police lead her boyfriend away from their Houston home in December 2015. She soon decided to move to New York to get away from him.

She had savings and a housing voucher but couldn't find an apartment and eventually moved with her kids into a no-pets shelter. An agency agreed to board Coco for 30 days; after that, the family would have to consider giving her up. Dawson still gets emotional thinking what that would have been like for kids who had already been through a lot.

"The way she just looks and interacts with us and makes us feel so comforted and cared for, that was something that would not be able to be replaced, and we needed it so much," says Dawson, 32. "When she was reunited with us, it really did bring that light back into our situation."

URI's facilities have welcomed 118 animals in four years — cats, dogs, turtles, birds, fish, a guinea pig and a bearded dragon. The new seven-story, 30-apartment shelter will have a shared pet-grooming room and a secluded dog park, so residents fearful of abusers finding them don't have to leave to walk dogs.

Windows won't open wide enough for cats to get out, but there may be shelves so felines can look outside. Flooring won't be too slippery or too sticky for paws. Paint won't be bright white, as some manmade white materials may appear fluorescent to cats and dogs, Venator said.

Dawson, meanwhile, moved her family into its own apartment after six months in shelter. She's working as a ride-hailing service driver, her kids are in middle school, and Coco is doing well. "When life happens and it comes at you really hard, having a pet," she says, "really does help."

Online: Urban Resource Institute pet-friendly shelter program: http://urinyc.org/program/uripals/

dazzleduck on May 30th, 2018 at 20:03 UTC »

I work at the ONLY DV shelter in the states that offers a place for the resident's animals (this includes exotics, reptiles, farm animals...) to stay that has staff trained to work with animals. This means that while the residents are working on getting their lives back together they don't also have to worry about feeding, walking, and playing with their animals, we take care of it for them so they can focus on their life. It is a HUGE deal that this is happening. If a DV victim leaves their pets, there is an 85% chance of that pet being abused and/or killed. Most will not leave their pets behind and choose to stay with their abuser instead. It is absolutely crazy that more shelters do not offer this.

Treemich on May 30th, 2018 at 18:56 UTC »

Good! My mom stayed in a relationship she shouldn’t have for years and years because she was afraid of what would happen to our dogs if she left.

elp22203 on May 30th, 2018 at 18:19 UTC »

I used to work for a domestic violence and sexual assault crisis center with no accommodations for pets. Most victims with pets would not leave them home to come to shelter, because they feared the abuser would retaliate against the pets. Pet accommodations have long been recognized in the field as necessary in order to get help for victims. This is indeed uplifting news.